Following is a transcription from the 'A Grandparent's Journal' as
written by Zella McAlister Schoaff Sill, written in the late 1980's.
My Mother, she was born in Peoria Co., Illinois north of Trivoli and
south east of Elmwood, in August of 1908. Her
parents were Clarence and Clara Bertie McMeen McAlister. She
married Clyde Ignatius Schoaff in 1927 and they had three children,
Elva, Marvin and Paul Schoaff. Clyde and Zella divorced
around 1950 and she remarried Charley Sill.
In January of 2004 she passed away suddenly at the home she
shared with Elva Schoaff Harper, in Peoria, IL.
paul schoaff
page 1…..Dedication…."Christmas 1985 my
grandchildren Douglas and Janet Harper gave me this book in hopes that
I would write things I recall about my life experiences.
"I'll begin with something about my parents, before my birth; the
things that were told to us so many times that we feel that we lived at
that time too.
"I shall dedicate this book to all of those wonderful grandchildren and
their children - the people I have been allowed to enjoy for many
years."
"Zella McAlister Sill"
page 2…."My father was Clarence Emmet McAlister, born
6/27/1885 in Logan Twp., Peoria Co., IL., son of John Walter McAlister
and Druscilla Adeline McAvoy McAlister. My mother was Clara
Bertie McMeen McAlister born 12/16/1887 in Trivoli Twp., Peoria Co.,
IL, daughter of George Irvin McMeen and Clara Esther Albright McMeen."
page 3…." Horse and Buggy Days"
"The oldest of his family, my Papa became a bachelor farmer a couple of
miles southeast of Elmwood, IL on a rented place.
"His sister Fern, later Fern Gibbons White, became a schoolteacher in a
neighborhood close to where my Mama lived.
"In those days the young people had play-parties in their homes - not
dances, but games like 'Skip-to-my-Lou', 'Drop the Handkerchief',
'Upset the Fruit basket', etc… That's the way my
folks met. Also Papa told about the young fellows driving
their horse and buggies to some neighboring church on Sunday evenings -
going in a group - they were out to find the girls. After the
last 'Amen' they jumped into their buggies and raced each other home -
firing their revolvers!"
page 4….continued…"The summer before my folks
were married, Mama and her sister Pearl, who was less than two years
younger, were sent to Pennsylvania to work for their Uncle Elmer McMeen
who had a dry goods store. They lived in his home and helped
in both places. But the girls were homesick for Illinois and
their boyfriends there and shortly after their return, Mama and Papa
eloped!
"By that time Fern was teaching at (?) High School near Papa's home and
living with him. So Papa took Mama home with him one night
and the next day four of them; Fern with her future husband, John
Gibbons - took the train to Peoria. Mama bought a new white
blouse, and with her ankle length skirt, that became her wedding
dress. She wore a big white ribbon in her hair.
Papa wore his suit - I think it was blue serge and a white shirt and
necktie.
"At that time it was the custom to go to Erler Studios on South Adams
Street and have a wedding picture taken that day - Papa sitting in a
chair and Mama with her arm resting on his shoulder."
page 5 …"As a wedding gift, Grandma McMeen always gave each
of her children a featherbed and pillows - homemade from her flock of
poultry - and a dresser with a big mirror. Papa had an iron
bedstead, no need to look for that word in the dictionary, but that's
what we called them. It had a straw tick instead of
a mattress - and each year the straw was emptied and fresh straw put in.
"In the living room was a heating stove, two rocking chairs - a little
round table on which lay the family bible and the picture album.
"The kitchen was heated, both winter and summer, by the range, which
had a warming oven, and a reservoir to keep the cistern water
warm. There was a square table that could be extended to seat
a dozen people - and a few straight chairs and later a highchair for me
and a white iron bed which was passed on to my brother and four
sisters. There was some kind of carpet on the living room and
part of the kitchen tacked down and stretched over straw."
page 6…continued…"Our house was a lot like the
one that Charlie Sill and I lived in…low - painted white -
with porches front and back.
" Papa's folks lived south east of us over by Eden and Mama's
were south of Trivoli. I expect each was about 12 miles
away. Oh, yes, there Were telephones, party lines.
"When Mama was expecting me, it was a long hot summer, and she became
homesick to see her folks, so one Saturday night Papa hitched up the
horse and buggy to take her to her folks to stay all night.
By morning, they knew that I was on the way and hurried home followed
by Grandma McMeen in her buggy. Dr. John Plummer of Trivoli
was called and met them there where I arrived on a Sunday afternoon,
8/9/08. 8 lbs. Grandma stayed awhile, after all,
the new mother had to stay in bed for ten days - she must not raise her
arms above her head - or lift the baby!
page 7…continued…"I had very little hair, white
and wispy. Mama tried to wrap it in rags to curl it but it
was very stubborn and finally got long enough to braid. Mama
kept pieces of our hair and our 'baby rings' in her trunk.
The babies wore rings tied up around their wrists with ribbon - by the
color of the ribbon you knew if it was a boy or girl.
"When Grandma McAlister saw me she said my nostrils weren't big enough
to breathe through and they should be stretched!
"I don't remember my brother's arrival 22 months later but when he was
still in the wicker baby carriage I recall going to visit our neighbor
"Mrs. Nick". The Nickerson family lived a short way around
the corner across a bridge. I screamed and refused to walk
over those boards - I was sure I would fall through the cracks!
"About that time, Papa hired a young fellow who had just come from
England, named Alfred Manuel. I can see him sitting by the
table holding baby Everett while Mama finished putting the food on the
table.
page 8…"When I was about 3 1/2 years old, Papa rented a
different farm, the Seltzer place, southwest of Trivoli about two
miles. It was the custom for farmers to move March 1st but
one evening, after Papa and Alfred had taken a load of machinery to the
new farm he came in yelling "Get Ready! We're going to Move
in the Morning!" It was cold weather and when one heating
stove was moved out you wanted to put up another one to keep the house
warm.
"I can still see Papa as he gripped the edge of the carpet in his big
hands and gave it a jerk to loosen the tacks. He was soon
rolling it up.
"They said Mama was up all night cooking things to feed the neighbors
who would be going along with wagon loads of our things. I
remember "Mrs. Nick" and Mama and Everett and I going in a surrey and
how they heated bricks to put under the blankets to keep the baby from
freezing. The new house was quite a lot like the old one but
had an upstairs and at the foot of the stair was an alcove called my
"bawly corner" Whenever I was unhappy I ran to it there to
hide my tears. Mama's way of punishing was to saw "Now aren't
you Ashamed?" I needed lots of spankings when I pestered my
brother, but I didn't get them.
page 9…"Later on, Everett and I each got one spanking when
we loitered along on the way home from school. He always said
it wasn't fair because Mama spanked me and Papa spanked him and He
could hit harder.
"Someone who had lived on the Seltzer Place - I always thought it was
one of the Seltzer's - had left some beautiful text books in the
upstairs hallway, and a set of maps showing the USA in earlier times
when it was divided in strange ways. Of course, I couldn't
read or understand it but as I remembered it later I often wished Mama
hadn't been so honest as to leave all of those things right where she
found them. And, there was the extra bedroom that Mama fixed
up for the hired man and in another room was the adjustable dress form
on a stand. Papa was a practical joker and I felt sorry for
the hired men - One night he fixed up that guy's bed with this dress
form under the covers to look like a woman lying there. There
was a terrible clatter up there late that night when he threw that out
on the bare floor.
"Papa needed help for we had more livestock and land to farm.
He rented extra pasture land, too. He always went to salt the
stock on Sunday mornings, so we seldom got to go to church.
Page 10…"The McAlister grandparents were only four miles
away now, so it was convenient to exchange work at busy
seasons. I remember going to Pleasant Grove Church to an ice
cream supper. When it was time to go home, Grandma McAlister
asked them to let her take Everett and me home with her.
After all, Mama and Papa would be coming over to help make hay the next
day!
"I was so tired and just wanted to go to bed but little brother started
bawling, so I cried too.
"Our young uncle Enos was just coming home from taking his girlfriend
home from the social so he and Aunt Nellie were ordered to take us
home. Uncle Enos was about as upset as Everett was and I felt
very unwanted, just trouble for everybody. When we finally
got home Uncle Enos yelled at the folks, "Come and get your
kids!" Driving a horse in the dark wasn't much fun
if you had to haul your brother's brats around…
page 11…"The McMeen grandparents lived closer now, too, and
it was only a short drive to the Penn Ridge Church
(Lutheran). We went there sometimes on special
occasions. I can see Uncle Aldo and Aunt Blanche Erford
there, too. She was one of the trio singing "Blessed
Assurance" by the old pump organ. Grandpa and Grandma had
always taken their big load of children to services there. My
youngest aunt was only 3 years older than me.
"One Christmas time, brother Everett and I remember going there in a
bobsled with a horseblanket tucked over our heads to keep
warm. Poor Papa had to stand up and drive the team and he
hated to get dressed up on those special occasions. I know
now how much work it was to harness up the teams and to take care of
them later, and how you had to brush Papa's clothes and clean them up
after each trip.
page 12…"In the church stood a big Christmas tree with
popcorn strings and tinsel trimming. The kerosene lamps with
their shiny reflectors lined the walls. It seemed such a
large place then - how did it get so small when I saw it last
Christmas? - How did they have room for a large heating stove in there?
"Gifts were hung on the tree - not wrapped as we do now.
There was a beautiful doll almost as big as me - and a tricycle and
Grandma kept telling me the doll must be for Rosalee who lived across
the road - How did she dare lie like that, right there in front of God
and all of us kids!
"I don't even remember, now, the name I gave the doll but Everett and I
had so much fun with his tricycle. We hooked our old wagon
behind it and went out to pick up kindling for Mama in the summertime.
"I remember the evening some neighbors came calling and when we stood
on the porch to bid them goodnight, they talked about the sinking of
the Titanic - I looked and looked and couldn't see it out there!
Page 13…"Then, suddenly, we were a bigger family!
Uncle Charlie and Aunt Lizzie had gone out west for his health with
their two boys. When he died of consumption she had no where
to go.. Their household goods were shipped back on the train
and Papa offered her a home with us in exchange for her big beautiful
cookstove.
"Aunt Lizzie was a small Dutch lady about the size of our
Mother. Her oldest boy Ralph was a little younger than
Everett and little Georgie was only a baby. We thought she
was mean to him because he cried so much. I now expect it was
because Lizzie cried, too. But she worked hard and was a big
help to our folks.
"When the menfolk were gone on the 'threshing ring", Mama and Lizzie
hitched up our driving horse to the buggy and took we four kids and the
butter and eggs to Farmington to go shopping. There were no
paved roads then, just dust and dirt and weeds and telephone poles
along the ways.
Page 14…"We were on our way home that hot afternoon when one
of the boys lost his hat right down at Topsy's heels, Mama told us
later that she thought she could have stopped her if Aunt Lizzie hadn't
grabbed one of the lines and tried to help stop Topsy as she lunged
down the road. All at once we were over against a fence and a
buggy wheel caught on a big telephone pole. The singlet broke
loose and Topsy ran as far as the next farmhouse where the man happened
to see her coming and caught her. What a thrill when he took
us home in his automobile…But, when Papa came home and had
to go about five miles to bring that horse home, he was MAD.
The horse got spanked but we didn't.
Page 15…Aunt Lizzie and the boys went to live with some of
her folks who needed her and Mama, Everett and I tried to get the
chores done when Papa would be working away from home. That's
when we learned to milk a cow. Everett and I used a tin cup
and took turns on a tame old cow while Mama did the others.
We were so proud if we could get everything done except the hog
feeding…Papa wanted to do that himself.
1914
"That fall Papa traded a cow or something to the landlord for an old
Maxwell car. Of course he had to take us all for a ride and
he didn't know how to drive it, but he cranked it up - we piled in and
away we went a mile down the road. At the next intersection,
when he slowed down from the snail's pace he was going, the engine
died, and wouldn't start, so he had to walk home and get the horses to
pull it home…
page 16…The car had carbide lamps. I don't
remember that they were ever used. When winter came the
Maxwell was put in the shed with the wheels blocked up to save the
tires…the battery was taken to the cellar to keep it from
freezing…the radiator was drained…who ever heard
of antifreeze?
"I was finally six years old and got to start to school - a one room,
named Higgs, and there were several Higgs children there. My
teacher was Miss Emma Higgs. The folks and Everett all took
me in the buggy the first morning with my new school books, a tablet
and pencil, a slate and slate pencil. I think there were less
than a dozen of us there. We each carried a dinnerpail - that
gave us something to swing around and fill with pretty pebbles or
wildflowers on the way home. Ours was the third house down
the road but it seemed a long way when Miss Higgs sent the first
graders home early and I was all alone going up and down the big hills.
Page 17…"Great Grandpa Enos McAlister was 89 years old when
I remember seeing him. We were invited to his home for
Thanksgiving Dinner. He lived a couple of miles south of Eden
and Aunt Lou - his daughter, was his housekeeper. All I can
remember about his looks is that he had a long white beard like Santa
Claus that was stained from chewing tobacco. He was sitting
in a big rocking chair by the heating stove and the floor all around
him was covered with newspapers so he could spit in the coal bucket -
and sometimes he hit the bucket.
"Louisa was my grandpa John Walter's sister. She was a BIG
woman and as I was growing up my folks kept telling me to eat and get
big like Aunt Lou…Everett was only three but he says he also
remembers that day.
Page 18…"We had our orders to behave ourselves.
Papa wanted to show off his wife and family to his grandpa.
"We were very careful at the dinner table with the starched tablecloth
and the huge goblets of water. I don't know what we ate but
the dessert was dried apple pie and I dared to say I didn't like
it. My parent's were so ashamed of it, but they told me later
that they didn't like it either…but they ATE it.
"Greatgrandpa didn't live long after that. I'm glad I got to
see him.
"I was too young to remember when Mom took Everett and me to visit the
Great Grandparents McAvoy down in Hancock county - she went on the
train from Elmwood down to Plymouth, IL with us two babies!
Page 19…"When Great-Grandpa McAlister died, Grandpa J. W.
and Aunt Louisa were his only survivors, so my grandparents moved to
the old home place. Aunt Lou bought a place in Eden on a
large lot where there was a barn for her horse and buggy. She
had a big garden and she planted a real jungle of fruits and
flowers. On her own for the first time, she took a trip on a
train to visit some cousins in Nebraska. There she found
little Emma McAlister, whose mother had died, and she brought her back
to Eden where she lived until she was a teenager. She was a
red-headed, freckle-faced girl. Big boned and strong, she
could soon be a help to Aunt Lou.
"Emma still had brothers in Nebraska and she went back to live there,
married a man named Everett and had a baby boy. I recently
learned of her death.
"Aunt Lou lived to hear the first radios, and they were a great worry
to her. Her health was failing and papa took her to Norberry
Sanitarium where she died in 1924.
Page 20…"When Grandpa John Walter and Grandma Druscilla
Adaline left the home place near Pleasant Grove where they have raised
their six children and moved to Great Grandfather's place, our folks
were asked to move to the farm near Pleasant Grove southwest of
Eden. 157 acres mostly in farm ground - a large orchard - a
huge 13 room house with green shutters. Grandpa had a local
carpenter, Henry Stuck, build a big hip roof barn and lots of other old
barns and shed were there too. There was the horse barn, cow
barn, sheep barn, hog house - corn cribs…machine
sheds...wool carding shed...the milk house beside the well at the back
door where water could be pumped through a concrete cooling
tank. Two chicken houses and the usual outdoor
toilet. There was no electricity there -- the board
walks had been replaced by concrete when we moved there.
"In the northwest corner of the yard was the coal house and smoke
house. Large trees surrounded the house on the south and
west. There were 3 wells. When I was quite young
the square wooden pump at the back door was replaced by a metal one
which of course made the water taste rusty!
"A big cistern was under the north two rooms of the house with a
cistern pump and long sink in the hallway over the cistern.
One wall was covered with hooks to hold our chore clothes and coats --
It was our bathing room in warm weather, where we washed our feet
before bedtime or when Dad said we are going somewhere...
page 21..."Grandpa J. W. had bought the farm when our Papa was a
youngster -- and maybe Uncle Roy was a baby -- There were Clarence,
Fern, Roy, Nellie, Enos and Mary. Also baby Grace who died
suddenly at age 2 when Grandma had just given birth to Enos and the
shock of Grace's death gave her milk fever. After that she
had a stiff knee. The way she walked she called 'pudging'
around. And she always said she wished some old woman in town
had all her illnesses so she could work harder and then when they
retired to live in Hanna City -- she told that over and over and
laughed about it. Papa and All of our aunts and uncles and my
brother and sisters and I had attended school at Pleasant Grove --
about a quarter mile from home. There was a Methodist Church
there, too, where Papa was a janitor as a young man. That
building is gone but the cemetery around it is the resting place of
seven generations of McAlester.
page 22..."When we moved to the Pleasant Grove farm I was still in
first grade and my Aunt Mary was in the eighth grade there -- that
helped a lot. This was also a one room school with John V.
Troth as our teacher of eight grades and a course of 'teacher's
training' for the older ones. He wouldn't tell us his middle
name so some secretly called him John 'Vinegar'. He was very
sweet and didn't deserve that nickname. The school building
was built of native rock. There had been a rock quarry down
the hollow from the school. There was a building for coal and
corncobs and two outhouses. There was a red-haw tree on the
south side and hickory nuts - acorns - plenty of room to play games.
"The next year we had Fulton Miller and he was also very
nice. Early in my third year he decided to put me in the
fourth grade because I could work the fractions just as well as his 4th
graders. My Papa was furious --- meanwhile I spent every
waking moment trying to catch up with the class, doing pages and pages
or arithmetic. I loved it but Papa was even angry because I
needed so much tablet paper. And, maybe, the folks were right
. When I graduated from 8th grade at 12 years of age, just a
tomboy -- and going to live with grandparents in Hanna City to attend
9th grade. I was her bashful little housemaid. I
had won a Normal scholarship by having the best grades in the county,
but my folks wouldn't let me use it by going to Normal to live with
their friends.
page 23..."New babies were always a big surprise at our
house. Baby Pearl arrived July 31, 1916 while Mama was
supposed to be cooking dinner for the threshing crew. So a
neighbor, Olive Kyle, got the meal for her and the next year when
Olive's baby girl Elizabeth came, Mama did the same for her.
Sister Eleanor was born in 1920. Aunt Velma had
been our teacher that year, boarded at our house, so she was a help to
Mama. We had a week of snow at Easter Time and couldn't have
school so "last day picnic" brought Eleanor and I was so disappointed
that Mama wasn't at the picnic. We always had a potluck
dinner out of doors to celebrate and teacher always furnished a treat
of ice cream for the whole crowd!
page 24..."Meanwhile, Grandpa J. W. and Grandma Druscilla had moved to
a house on S. Runkle St. in Hanna City, leaving Uncle Roy and Aunt
Blanche to move to the old homestead south of Eden.
"Grandma's health was bad -- she had several surgeries -- a breast was
removed in 1921. It was cancerous but they must have gotten
it all for she lived to her 80's and died of pneumonia.
"Grandpa was a wiry little man; he had spent a lot of time painting and
repairing on his farms but we didn't really know him! He was
landlord, instead of a loving grandfather. He got a job at
the Alexander Lumber Company and worked very hard. He was an
"Odd Fellow" and he and a friend would walk five miles down the
railroad track to go to lodge in Trivoli.
"Grandpa drove a model T Ford Car after they moved to town.
If Grandma rode with him she stayed in the back seat and held on with
both hands -- her sunbonnet flapping in the wind.
Grandpa started out with a roar and never slowed up until he hit the
brakes to stop.
"Aunt Mary took piano lessons and worked enough to buy herself a
piano. She gave lessons and one time borrowed Grandpa's Ford
to go give a lesson out of town. The car stalled on the
railroad track when a train was coming so she jumped out and pushed it
off into a ditch...and that was her last trip with it. It was
still easier to take a horse and buggy.
page 25..."Grandma Druscilla's mother was Martha Jane Frame McAvoy who
was born in W. Virginia and married James McAvoy. He went
away to the Civil War when Grandma was little but you can read all
about that in Aunt Maggie Scott's book "Memories".
"In the later years they made their home in Hancock County near their
son, Emmet. I can remember one visit from her in about
1917. She was 82 years old and seemed Very Old and
feeble to me. Our Papa was one of her favorites because he
bought her tobacco for her corncob pipe and asked her to bake cornbread
for him. She rolled up pieces of paper to use to put into the
cookstove and then light her pipe. We watched her closely,
afraid she would burn herself.
"Mama got her to sit in a rocker and took her picture and beside her in
the little rocker was our little sister, Pearl.
page 26..."Funerals.... Going back to when I was perhaps 5 years old
would be my first recollection of a funeral. That would be
when Uncle Charlie McMeen died out west and was brought back to 'Lie in
State" in the middle of Grandpa and Grandma McMeen's parlor.
Aunt Lizzie (his widow) sat outside the parlor door, dressed in black,
wearing a black hat draped with a black veil and SCREAMED!!
My folks wanted to lift me up to look at Uncle Charlie and I
refused. I heard them say something about Nora and Grace
Albright, who were cousins, had made a hair wreath to take the place of
real flowers. I don't remember the trip to the cemetery in
the horse-drawn carriages but I do recall all the black veils the women
wore down past their chins.
"When I was at Pleasant Grove School, one of Papas great aunts
died. She was burning trash in the garden and caught her long
skirts on fire and they say she burned to death! What a
horrible thought! I supposed her body was gone -- no one
explained.
"The funeral was at the church next to the school and the teacher let
me and my girl friend Bertie Stuck go over to it. Aunt Mary
McAlister was seated at the old pump organ playing 'Jesus, lover of my
Soul' over and over and over....Later, she said she would
NEVER play at another funeral.
page 27..." And then, there was INFLUENZA...What a horrible
disease! I can still remember how I felt. None of
our family died from it, but several neighbors did. They
would go into pneumonia and there was no cure for that, then.
"Oh, yes, Uncle Mearl McMeen's wife died of it. They had been
homesteading -- I believe in Montana -- or the Dakotas -- and she
brought little Guy home to visit at her parents -- When she got sick
they were able to contact Uncle Mearl who came home on the train -- no
airplanes then -- but she had died before he could get here.
" I think Mearl and Guy went to live wit his folks Grandpa
and Grandma McMeen for awhile. Uncle Elmer McMeen was in the
service at that time and Uncle Mearl could help with the farm work.
"Some years later Uncle Mearl and Guy went back to the North Woods for
awhile to dispose of his property -- but came back to Illinois and a
married lady from Fulton Co. At our family reunion this year
we were with Guy's children and grandchildren.
page 28..."Featherweight Memories"...Our Grandma McMeen raised poultry
-- not just chickens, but geese, ducks, guineas and turkeys, and more
of them than ever in the summer of 1918. She was
doing her part at home, as their youngest son was over in France and a
World War I Star hung in the parlor window.
"When we visited Grandma on their farm northeast of Canton, if we
children were very quiet, we could go into the part of the chicken
house where the setting hens nested. Grandma knew just which
day each nest of eggs would hatch. What fun it was to carry
the tiny chicks into the summer kitchen and put them in a box by the
big old range to keep them safe until the whole setting was
hatched. The next day the hen and her brood were taken to a
little coop in the orchard. The hen was shut in, but the
chicks would come in and out, until they were old enough to keep up
with their mother as she foraged all over the place. But she
knew her own coop when bedtime came.
page 29...."Big pans of skimmed milk were set on the back of the range,
and the clabber was fed to the young poultry or finished off into
cottage cheese for us to eat. The goslings and ducklings
liked bread and milk. They made a lot of noise and nibbled
your bare toes if you got too close. I was afraid of the big
geese and turkeys.
"I don't think Grandma used an commercial feed, just wheat, oats and
cracked corn and lots of fresh water. No fair dipping it from
the horse trough, though. We had to pump and pump and that
was hard work for a ten year old. Then, we ventured out past
all those noisy birds to fill their water pans. The ducks
were experts at getting the water dirty, but if we could get out there
while they were in the far corner of the orchard, that gave the other
birds a chance.
"One time, I walked into the summer kitchen and found Grandma plucking
the down off the old geese. They didn't need it in the summer
time. Grandma had a big piece of canvas stretched over her
lap, and held the goose over a big tub as she plucked the
down. She held the goose's head back under her arm to keep it
from biting her. The geese didn't seem to mind, for they
didn't struggle much while she plucked them. She made pillows
and featherticks for all the family with a mixture of the down and
feathers.
page 30..."One hot night the thunder began to rumble and Grandma hopped
out of bed, threw a shawl around her shoulders and lighted and lantern
to go check on the coops of roosters she had shut up to go to market
the next day. She put some heavy planks over them to protect them from
the rain and wind and then hurried along, stopping at the back
house. From that shelter she could see the many small coops
that were stacked down. Satisfied that they were all secure,
she went back to bed. Then came the gully washer and the next
morning the coops and roosters were all gone. It had been
handy for someone to carry them across the orchard to the road, and
their tracks were all washed away. I don't know whether
Grandma was more angry at her loss or more frightened at the thought
that those fellows might have been lurking in the shadows as she tended
her flock.
page 31..."After the Armistice was signed, it was soon Christmas and
there was a big celebration with all the families there to welcome
Uncle Elmer home from the war. We grandchildren were called
into the kitchen to see the roast turkey, the goose, the ducks, the
guineas and chickens. Also, the big kettles of other things,
and then we were shown the long dining table set with her finest
linens, china and silver.
"After that, the youngest aunts took us into Grandma's
bedroom. It looked strange in there. The furniture
had been removed, except the big round stove, and there was room to
play games. Hidden behind bedsheets was a Christmas tree that
reached the high ceiling, but we couldn't see it until we had eaten a
'Second Table".
"I'm sure that Grandma made many of the small gifts that hung on the
tree, and Santa came in time to see us get them. I think our
little cousin Guy Mcmeen, was the only one who talked to him.
He wanted to know why Santa's boots were just like his Daddy's.
page 32..."Christmas....when we were kids in school might have been
like it is today. There were usually around a dozen
pupils. We had a program on a Friday afternoon before
Christmas. Each one spoke a piece. Then sang a few
songs -- Santa came in and passed out the gifts from the one who had
drawn your name. We each took a gift to the teacher and Santa
gave each one there (grownups and all) an orange and a sack of
candy. There was a Christmas tree that had been cut in
someone's woods but of course we didn't have electricity for lights on
it.
"It was funny to see the grownups try to squeeze into the seats -- and
to see all the little ones in the neighborhood, too.
"When Aunt Velma taught there she brought the tree home to our house,
where she had been a boarder. Otherwise we didn't usually
have a real tree except for a straggly branch that Everett and I were
allowed to cut from the only evergreen on the farm. We
trimmed it with strings of popcorn and anything bright we could find.
page 33..."We put all of our old toys away out of sight and hung our
stockings on backs of chairs -- we had no mantle or fireplace -- just
heating stoves. And we were taught that Santa would
come. We usually got one gift each and some kind of game we
could share and an orange and candy in our stocking. Dad
always showed us a chunk of coal that Santa had left in his sock or
shoe. One year, we got a Flexible Flyer Sled! And
had to wait and wait for it to snow.
"I don't remember ever giving gifts to our folks or grandparents or
cousins!
"One year, Mama's order to Sears didn't come on time and she made doll
clothes and things like that -- I remember the metal rabbit bank and
the Happy Hooligan toy that Everett got -- I'll bet he still has
them. You could push old Hooley over and he would pop right
back up again -- balanced so he would NOT LAY DOWN!
"One year, Mom ordered sweaters and caps for Everett and me -- but mine
was a plain knit cap and a brushed wool sweater. I was very
sad about it not matching, but never told her so.
page 34..."One year Aunt Blanche gave me a gift because I had come to
take care of them when she had the flu. It was a little
compact of blusher with a mirror in it. My only makeup.
"When I was 13, I got scarlet fever in September and couldn't go to
school. We were quarantined 6 weeks -- yes, it seemed like 6
Years, and had to fumigate the house and sleep in the barn one
night. No one else got it until the next spring when Mom went
to an upstairs storeroom to get some magazines to read -- and baby
Eleanor got it.
"I think that was the Christmas they surprised me with a wrist
watch. I wound it too tightly and it only ran a few hours,
but it was a Watch! Everett got a pocket watch for his
birthday one time. I think they were about a dollar
then. And another boy dropped it down in the well!
But, that's another story....
page 35..."It was hard times...the railroad had gone on strike and put
a lot of men out of work. Our land bordered the railroad
track. It was the Minneapolis and St. Louis back
then. And hobos often walked the tracks or rode the
rails. One day, Papa brought a man in to dinner
with him when he came in from the fields.
"His name was Axel or Axle Nelson and he wanted work. Papa
put him to work that day but the next day he said he had to let his
wife know where he was. So, Papa took him to Peoria to tell
his wife, and, lo and behold, his wife and two children came back with
them. And...it was the little Nelson boy who dropped
Everett's watch in the well while papa and Axle had the top off it to
fix something.
"I think they only stayed a few days but became good friends.
The man who cam as a hobo was a pretty well to do Swede who had a good
job with the railroad and owned his own home.
page 36...."papa liked to visit with anyone who came down the road and
often brought salesmen home for a meal -- or to spend the
night. He might not buy anything from them but he sure
entertained them well.
"I remember a Mr. Kimsey from Trivoli who had only one arm.
He came by, selling needles and pins, and stayed all night -- and I can
see Papa on his knees lacing up Mr. Kimsey's shoes for him the next
morning, so he could walk on over to the neighbors.
"Papa's cousins from Hancock County would come driving in once a year
or so and spend the night...and the Spillman boys who had worked as
hired men for us would come and visit overnight.
"Art Spillman picked corn for Papa one year when he was in bed with
sciatic rheumatism. That was brought on by a 40 foot fall
from the top of the hip-roof barn, and falling on the cement floor --
landing on his back. Grandpa McAlister thought he
heard them say to pull up the hay -- but Papa was up there fixing the
fork that was caught...and it jerked him loose from his perch on the
little platform up there.
page 37..."One of our favorite places to play was in the
orchard. We could climb in most of the apple trees and sway
back and forth on the big limbs. Papa would turn the flock of
sheep in there to keep the grass and clover fairly short. One
time when he turned them in he had a big ram with them. Two
of Everett's friends were visiting him and they played in the trees
dropping down to ride on the ram's back and to get him to chase
them. Papa was pretty unhappy about that.
He always said, when it came to help, One boy's a boy; Two boys are
half a boy; and, Three boys are no help at all!
page 38...."Making cider......Everett and I made cider about every day,
after the apples began to fall. We hauled them in our little
wagon over to the cidermill at the south side of the orchard.
It was hard work turning the crank to grind up the apples into a pulp
which dropped down into a round slotted container; and, when it was
full, we put the wooden lid on top and turned another crank on top
which put pressure on the pulp. The apple juice ran down a
trough, then it was strained and put in a large pan which we set in the
north window of the pantry to keep cool...no ice boxes or refrigerators
then. Cider getting old was poured into a barrel and after a
year or more of aging became our vinegar.
page 39..."To be allowed to do more of the chores about the place and
given more responsibility made us proud to be 'growing up'.
"Hauling in the fuel from the coal house which was in the far northwest
corner of the yard was one of those regular chores. There
were two kinds of coal -- the big hard lumps from the deep mine at
Hanna City -- which was used at bedtime to keep the fire burning slowly
all night. The soft coal came from small mines over by
Edward's Station. Hauling in the coal in his big wagon with a
gentle team was an all day job for Papa for each load, for there were
people to visit with all along the way...and the horses must rest once
in awhile! And there were corncobs or some kind of kindling
stored in the smoke house to bring in, too.
page 40..."Seed Corn.....Late in the fall, before the corn was dry
enough to store in a crib, papa went into the field with a big sack
tied around his shoulder and picked the biggest, most perfect ears he
could find. He piled them on the hayrack in the driveway of
the big barn and we all helped him put them up to dry. Each
ear had a loop of binder twine pulled tightly around the bigger end --
after the shucks were pulled off, of course. Two ears
fastened together could be hung over nails that were driven into the
big 2 by 8's way up above our heads. The mice couldn't get it
there either.
"The next spring, after it had dried all winter, Papa took them down
and with care, shelled off the small grains at the little end of the
ear and any odd shaped grains at the big end. Then we could
help Mama shell the rest of it into a basket. Then, it was
poured into a little rack made of metal with had holes in it to let the
grains that were too small fall through. In other words, the
seed had to be the right size to fall through the plates in the corn
planter. That's where we got the best cobs for Mama to start
the fire in the range.
page 41..."Planting corn was tedious work. You had to have a
dependable team to keep a steady pace and to turn just right at the
ends of the field.
"A wire with loops of metal every 28 inches (or was it less?) was
strung across that made the corn drop at regular intervals...corn had
to be cultivated both ways of the field to keep the weeds
out. So the distance between the rows and between the plants
in the rows had to be the same.
"Now we have hybrid corn grown by the big companies and you can't
gather your own seed. Besides that, it is drilled in rows so
thick that weeds don't have a chance to grow between the
plants. The soil is tested, treated with many
chemicals and its all a different procedure. Very little corn
is harvested on the cob anymore -- mostly shelled by the harvester and
put in a dryer before storing in metal bins.
page 42..."When we were old enough to want to make money, our folks
hired us to go out with little molasses buckets and a hoe and cut weeds
that the cultivator missed in the field, or gather cockle burrs or pods
from the velvet leaf weed. I think we got 5 cents a
hundred. We kept books on that, but we didn't see
any money. Papa bought War Saving Stamps for us until we had
$35!!!!
"Then Papa went to an auction one day a saw a young fellow's pony he
knew we would want. He made a deal with the guy and brought
'Beauty' home. She broke loose and ran home -- papa followed
her in the car and found she was running 35 miles an hour!
Anyway, when she got home the boy's father said NO SALE! The
boy shouldn't have sold her so cheap...So, I think Papa had to pay more
than twice as much but he brought her home to us and she was a big help
to each of us as we were just the right size to use her.
page 43..."It was our job to carry lunch and drinking water to the men
working in the field and it was nice to have Beauty to ride instead of
walking up the lane and getting hedge thorns in our bare
feet.
"In the evening we rode to the pasture to bring in the milk
cows. Everett and I were soon old enough to do the milking
for Papa, who hated to milk a cow. We also threw the hay down
from the mow and put it into the mangers, while Papa kept the job of
feeding the grain most of the time.
page 44..."We took our little wagon down to the big corn crib and
picked out big ears of corn to feed the horses. Brought it up
to the big barn and put it in a steel barrel and had to be sure there
wasn't a bit of shuck on any of them. It was our duty to keep
that barrel full and to clean out each horse's feed box and take those
corn cobs to be burned. That was a nasty job if you went too
soon after the horses had slobbered on them.
"When farmers there first started raising soybeans, it was only for hay
and that was the hardest feed to handle. Clover hay was
easier to fork into the throw down the chute. I don't
remember ever having any baled hay while I was on Papa's
farm. When Clyde and I farmed near Edward's Station we had
alfalfa hay made into square bales and that was easier to move when we
moved to our own farm down by Glasford.
page 45..."Another pet we had was the dog that Grandpa McAlister left
there, old Brownie. He did a lot of barking, especially at
night when we wanted to sleep.
"We had a long porch all along the front of the house and around the
corner to the kitchen door. It was my job to scrub it, and as
soon as I got done, old Brownie would come walking the full length of
it. After he was gone, we had several pups that got killed or
died...Then the folks had one they call "The pup" It was a
real 'stock dog' and good at bring the cows or horses to the barn
without any human help. When they saw him coming, they didn't
tarry; he would nip at their heels. They kept him until they
moved off the farm.
page 46..."In the summer time I used to ride the pony to Sunday School
in Eden. Mrs. Holt was our teacher. We would carry
a penny to put in the offering -- and we always had a pretty card to
carry home, with a picture and scripture text on it.
"When we were very young, I remember going to Pleasant Grove Sunday
School right there beside our school house. It was a
Methodist Church and the one in Eden was a United
Presbyterian. Both those buildings have been torn
down. The Fishers? bought the one at Pleasant Grove and used
the materials to build their home down near Glasford.
"The Penn Ridge Lutheran Church that Grandpa McMeen went to is still in
business and the building has been remodeled and improved. We
have had McMeen reunions in the basement there.
page 47..."I remember when Lindberg was flying around Illinois and when
he flew the ocean blue! And seeing the Goodyear Blimp sailing
along overhead -- what a Thrill! And then, to hear of the
explosion of the big Zeppelin, the Hindenberg, in New Jersey.
"We saw a balloon ascension at Hanna City where it took them most of
the day to fill the thing with enough hot air to get to go
aloft. It only went a short way, a few miles, and Fulton
Miller, my former school teacher drove out and brought the man back to
town. Mr. Miller had a car -- a Big One.
page 48..."Allowances...Money...now that was something that children
heard about -- but did not touch. I think allowances are
wonderful, a way for kids to learn the value of money -- and of the
silly things we think we want.
"If anything was needed from the general store, during the week, other
members of the family said "Charge it", and on Saturday evening Papa
and Mama took us to Eden with the eggs and butter to sell and to shop
for groceries, chewing tobacco, maybe a piece of calico -- gloves --
tools -- most anything you could think of -- and when it was all
totaled up -- with a paper and pencil, Papa might have to fork over a
little cash to settle the bill. But, Mr. McCullough always
put in a sack of candy for us kids.
"I don't remember handling money until I was about 12 years
old. We went to Hanna City on July 4th and Mama gave me a
nickel to go get an ice cream cone at Aunt Fern's place.
page 49..."When I was younger, in the summer time, our family went
shopping in Farmington on Saturday nights -- that was when we lived
south of Trivoli -- and that was horse and buggy, too. When
we got into town, before dark, the eggs and butter were taken to a
store and then Mama and we kids went down the street to shop at dim
stores, shoe stores, dry goods stores, and always at Polito's fruit
store. The band was set up on a stand in the middle of Main
Street and played LOUD -- and the Italians on the corners talked in
their own language, which was frightening to me. When we
finally met Papa we all went to the movies -- 10 cents admission -- and
Papa always laughed so loud at the funny cartoons that everybody knew
we were there. I think we kids slept all the way home, but it
was fun.
"Don (and Patsy) Zessin, my nephew, has a supper club in that
same movie house now.
INSERT regarding Ku Klux Klan and Gypsies...
Uncle Orville Glasford was joining the Ku Klux Klan and Dad thought he
was going to keep him from going into it. They met over at
the Methodist Church in Trivoli. We went over
there. Dad tood the whole family, I don't know why, maybe for
protection! We kids and Mom went along. I got to
sit in the car. The men folks went into the chruch, or around
there somewhere and had their meeting ---Dad wouldn't join them, though
they certainly wanted him to. And when we drove
home -- Dad was a person who was agraid of things. He was
agraid of a lot of things, and he was afraid all the way
home. Such driving, I'll tell you. The hard road
wasn't paved up there yet...Dust! OOOH! He was afraid of
anything he didn't understand, and there was a lot he didn't
understand...
Gypsies...I told you about the bypsies over at the
schoolhouse? They would go from one schoolhouse to another
and camp, and they were camped at Pleasant Grove Schoolhouse, and, of
course, that was just a short distance from our place, and he was
afraid that they'd come over and steal things at night. It
had just gotten dark and here came a horse that they had tethered out
and it had got loose. It came up to the front of our house in
the yard there, you know? It was marked with different colors
so that it looked just like a horse with a saddle on it standing out
there. Dad got us kids and took us to a room in the back of
the house upstairs. Mom was to keep us there, and he got a
gun and sneaked out the back door and sneaked around there to see what
was going on. Came back and told us to go to bed, that it was
just a horse. Well! How would you sleep
after that?...The gypsies came to get it the next morning.
One of the first things we were told was that Gypsies would kidnap us...
page 50..."Getting Ready for Threshing Day"..."Dad hauled a load of
soft coal from the stripmines north of Hanna City to use in the kitchen
range and in the steam engine that ran the threshing machine.
He cleaned out the bins for the new grain, cut all the weeds in the
fence rows and trimmed the hedge fences.
"He took Mama to Peoria to pick up a new oilcloth for the kitchen
table, some new dishes, some linen to make towels and calico for bib
aprons. Some hand soap like 'Camay' or
'Ivory'. They brought us kids home a book to read
for the summer -- one was 'Curlytops on Star Island'...
"The house was cleaned from top to bottom. Fresh curtains,
etc., usually in the early spring before gardening time. New
wallpaper was hung where it was needed. The heating stoves
were taken down about the first of May and stored in the 'Butler's
pantry' The carpet in the dining room was taken up and hung
on the clothesline where it was beaten thoroughly then fresh straw was
put over the floor before laying the carpet and tacking it on all
edges. Papa and the hired man had to go in and scrape their
big feet along to stretch it as tight as possible. What a
happy day it was when they finally got 'Congoleum' 9x12 instead of
carpet. It was quite inexpensive and very easy to clean.
page 51..."Mama baked bread, buns and sweetrolls about twice a week and
with threshers coming she had to do a lot of extra baking -- usually a
half dozen pies and two kinds of cake.
"The big dining table was stretched out with all its extra leaves to
seat at least a dozen people, but the long white damask cloth wasn't
put on until the day it was needed.
"Silverware was polished, salt and pepper shakers were filled -- as was
the big sugar bowl. Butter was churned and stored in a crock
on the cellar floor.
"When the big steam engine came lumbering slowly up the road, pulling
the grain separator, Papa was right there to open gates and direct
their way into a small pasture on the south side of our big
barn. The machine had to be set up level so that the straw
could be blown into a stack, and if the wind changed, everything had to
be turned around to keep things blowing in the right
direction. It had to be just so for the big drive belt to
stretch between the engine and the threshing machine.
"Neighbors for miles around belonged to the "Threshing Ring" and shared
in the work. (page 52)...Probably 6 or more came with a
hayrack and each had two 'pitchers' to load the sheaves of grain on to
the rack while the man on the wagon stacked it just so to haul as big a
load as possible without upsetting it. Those teams had to be
well broken to be driven up beside that noisy machine to unload into
the separator. Then there were several grain wagons and Papa
hired a couple of men who were good scoopers and could keep up with the
traffic.
"If you rented your land, the grain had to be divided equally into
different bins, or some hauled to market. Then there was the
waterwagon supplied by the man who owned the threshing rig.
They usually had to go down to a stream somewhere to get a load of
water, but we had one well that Never went dry, and remember everything
was pulled by horses, no tractors or trucks yet?
"When the machine moved on to a neighbor's, Papa had to take his turn
with his hayrack and the hired hand was a pitcher. They
worked until 5 or 6 o'clock and then ate supper before they came home,
so that left us kids and Mama to do the chores at home, except for
taking care of the horses. Papa wouldn't let anyone else do
that.
page 53..."Back to Mama's work on the big day -- she fretted and stewed
until the man came from McCullough's store to bring the beef roast and
a big chunk of ice and some cheese.
"That old cook stove was stoke up, the reservoir was filled with soft
water from the cistern, and we kids had to carry soft water to a tub in
the yard where the sun's bright rays warmed it for the men to use to
wash up at dinner or supper time. We put out a bar of that
good hand soap and those new slick towels -- and a mirror hung on a
porch post with a comb nearby -- that was before WWI -- when people
became aware of germs and lice -- they said the men in the service
brought them home from overseas....
"Back to Mama's kitchen, Aunt Blanche and several neighbor ladies were
there to help prepare the food. Potatoes had to be peeled and
cabbage cut for slaw, tomatoes sliced, (page 54)...green beans snipped
and corn cut from the cob., fixed the sliced bananas on the applesauce,
slice the cheese, put the beet and cucumbers in dishes and the jelly
and comb-honey....
"There was ginger water to make to fill some jugs for the water boy to
take to the fields. He had plain water,
too. The ginger water was made by adding a bit of
vinegar -- some powdered ginger and some baking soda. He
drove a pony to a cart and was the idol of all the kids. They
envied him, making money doing that!
"We had one well, the one by the back door that had water fit to
drink. It had a wooden pump in it and when that finally broke
down and had to be replaced by a metal pump, folks said the water
didn't taste right!
"My job was to keep the little cousins out from underfoot, maybe play
in the orchard where we could watch the big racks of grain go
by. If the acreage was big enough or there was any trouble,
the men would still be there at suppertime. I remember when
one of the operators stayed all night to get up at daylight and stoke
up the engine.
page 55..."There were lots of dishes to wash, after the 1st tableful of
men got out, to prepare for 2nd table. Mama had made new
dishtowels from flour sacks and many hands made light work, but, oh,
that kitchen was hot with the old cookstove going full blast.
The big enameled coffee pot was kept hot and with the ice (a big treat)
they could have iced tea, too.
"We kids and the women made a tableful after all the men were gone back
to work.
"Remember there was no electricity, no running water and no plumbing.
"Mama always said pie was for dinner and cake and fruit for supper...I
don't know what else was different.
"One year Mama had baby Pearl the day she was supposed to serve the
dinner and Olive Kyle took her place, feeding them at her
house. The next year Mama did the same for her when Elizabeth
Kyle was born.
"Another time I remember a carload of Mama's family came to visit
because they had company from Pennsylvania, Grandpa's nephew, (page
56) who wanted to see them thresh. I'm sure it only
made more work for mama, but she wouldn't complain.
"Big combines, balers and 'Harvesters' have taken the place of the
threshing machine in this part of the country. The Harpers
drove through a part of the country out east last summer where there
were shocks of grain in the fields and horses were still the main power
source, Amish Country, I suppose.
"People drive from all over the country to visit the Amana Colonies in
Iowa to see such things and to Arcola, Il. to see how the Amish live
and to buy the things they make. In Peoria, the Mennonites
have a sale every year at the Civic Center, selling baked goods, meats,
home crafted items -- lots of quilts and the money goes to
missions. They also serve meals there for several days and
the quilts bring a Big Price at auction.
page 57...."Grade School Graduation"....."I know that some of this is
repetition but isn't that the way I talk?
"When I was in the eighth grade we had to go to a bigger school to take
our final exams. There were four of us in the class, two
girls and two boys. Bertie Stuck and I rode to Glasford with
her father because he was doing carpenter work there. It was
comforting to me to see two of my aunts there with children from their
schools. The two boys, Lloyd Goff and Earl Kimsey, went to
Trivoli to take their tests. We all passed. Then I
received word that I would be Valedictorian in Glasford.
"Mama made me a white dotted swiss dress with a big fancy collar and
bought me some patent leather shoes.
"The big day came and it rained. and there were no paved
roads and few gravelled ones. In the new Maxwell we went
miles out of the way to avoid the big hills -- but we made it -- to the
big lodge hall where I had to sit on the stage with the V. I.
P.'s OH, I was so bashful! I used a short
poem from "the Public Speaker", and how I wish I could find that book!
page 58...."The Hanna City School rented an old store building -- with
a furnace in one corner -- no water -- out of door toilet -- Mr.
Mulvaney taught seventh, eighth and ninth grades. Papa
arranged for me to live with his folks and go there. He had
to pay tuition and board......Besides that, I had to help Grandma with
the work -- for she had just had a breast removed and needed all the
help she could get.
"Although they lived in the 'city' they had no modern conveniences --
not even electricity. There was a kitchen range -- and two
heating stoves -- I carried in most of the coal and carried out all of
the ashes. I cleaned the lamps and filled them with kerosene,
carried the chamber pots to the backhouse out by the alley and carried
in all of the water. And, Hanna City water wasn't fit to
drink.
"I cleaned her parlor every other day, but in the parlor was a piano
and I got to practice on it and walked across town to Aunt Mary White's
to take lessons. It didn't do much good for we didn't have
anything to play on at home.
"Grandpa worked nearby at the lumber yard and we both came home to eat
at noon. Grandma did the cooking and I helped do dishes.
page 59...."Most of the time, I got to go home on Friday night, until
Sunday night. On Saturdays, Mama helped me wash and iron my
clothes. I had three outfits -- a plaid dress and a white
blouse which I wore with a jumper or a skirt.
"I got to tell the younger kids everything I'd learned all
week. Latin -- algebra-- sentence and theme -- science --
physical geography.
"I think the main reason for starting a ninth grade in Hanna City was
to encourage the miners sons to stay in school instead of going down in
the mine with their fathers. One the days when the mine
wasn't working some of the young fellows showed up and Mr. Mulvaney
spent a lot of time lecturing them about staying in school.
"There was no place for sports. Horseshoe pegs were driven
over across the street between the sidewalk and the side of a store
building. That was right up my alley -- I could beat all the
girls -- but wasn't allowed to play the boys.
page 60..."At Grandma's I had a room just off the kitchen on the
northwest corner of the house -- hot in summer and frigid in
winter. Mama gave me a dollar a week allowance and I spent it
on Jergens Lotion.
"On Monday Morning I filled the wash boiler to heat and Grandpa rolled
out the washing machine -- a wringer washer with a big handle that you
pulled and pushed back and forth to activate the dolly. By
school time, Aunt Mary came in to help finish the wash and hang the
clothes to dry. Grandma used her homemade soap and bluing and
lots of starch! The windows steamed up and Grandma crumple up
old newspapers to dry them and make them shine.
"Whenever something happened that I didn't get to go home for the
weekend, I walked to church with Grandma to the same Methodist Church
that Elva attends now. then in the afternoon I
would go to the Presbyterian Church. That way, I'd get to see
a lot of my schoolmates.
page 61..."It cost a quarter to ride the train round trip Eden to Hanna
City. One time papa came over to see his folks and to ride
back to Eden with me.
"The passenger train was late and the Local freight came along first
and asked papa if we wanted to ride with them in the caboose.
Betcha none of you ever rode a Freight Train! Anyway, we got
off at Eden and started walking west on the tracks out behind the
freight train to get to the farm. Its noise kept us from
hearing the passenger train coming up behind us. Suddenly
Papa grabbed my arm, threw me down over the bank and jumped down after
me! I guess our heavy winter clothes kept us from hearing the
train's whistle...
page 62..."At the end of eight months, the board of directors told Mr.
Mulvaney that they couldn't afford to run the school another month --
so he told us to come back one more day for tests and he would work
that day free to see that we got credit for the year's work.
"The next year those 8th and 9th graders went to Trivoli High or Peoria
Manuel or Peoria High. All but me.
" I met Mr. and Mrs. Mulvaney and family on the street in Hanna City
one time and he agreed that I was getting my education in the School of
Hard Knocks...
page 63..." In the late summer of 1922 I became very ill.
High fever -- delirious. Dr. Plummer thought it was
diphtheria, but next day when I broke out he said "Scarlet Fever" and
he put a quarantine sign on our front door. We were shut in
for 6 weeks.
"I was isolated in the parlor where Mama had moved the spare bed and
only Mama came and went in there. Coming in through the
bedroom, she put everything through a disinfectant and kept the disease
from spreading to anyone else. No produce could be sold from
the farm. Milk was fed to the hogs -- what a waste!
INSERT from an interview at another time:
Q: How long were you sick?
A: Oh, I was quarantined -- I think we were quarantined for six
weeks. Maybe my memory's wrong, but I was in the parlor of
that old house down there at Pleasant Grove by myself for all that
time. Mother would come in and bring my clothes that I had
used to the bedroom next to that and put them in a
disinfectant. She was very careful that she didn't carry
anything back to the rest of the family. Then, when all that
was over with, there was an outside door to my room there. I
could go out after I had been in there for about a month. I
was allowed to get out to the orchard or somewhere away from the family.
Q: What did you do with your time? Did you read?
A: Not for awhile. I wasn't allowed to use my eyes very
much. Anything I read had to be destroyed. One
thing I did (I shouldn't mention it in front of children) we
had a thermometer that I was to take my temperature every day and I
though 'I bet I can get that to go up,' and struck a match under
it. I was old enough to know better! Thirteen years
old! Of course I broke it. I was bored
silly. I had to do something.
When this quarantine was over. Quarantine meant that they
couldn't sell anything off the farm: eggs, butter, cream --
anything. They couldn't let anybody take anything away from
there.
Q: So that was rough on Everybody?
A: It was.
Q: Did you have a red sign on your house?
A: yes
Q: What do they do for scarlet fever now?
A: Oh, they don't quarantine, they have isolation.
Q: Scarlet fever is rare now, isn't it?
A: We had one bad case here in town this year.
They thought at first that I had diphtheria because my throat was so
bad, and I was delirious, and had such high fever for so
long. Then when the quarantine was over we had to move out of
the house and fumigate it with these sulfur candles. Mother
had to put clothes lines in all the rooms and hang all the cloth and
anything that she could so that the fumes would go through
it. Well, Mother had a magazine call 'Comfort Magazine' which
had patterns and recipes in it and she wanted to keep those so she took
those to a storeroom upstairs where we never went and put them
away. That night, while the fumigating was going on, we took
blankets and slept on the hay in the barn, the whole family.
That was quite an adventure.
Q: Was it summer time?
A: No, it was in the fall. See, I had it in September, so it
must have been around the first of November or the latter part of
October anyway.
Q: Was it chilly?
A: Yes.
Well, as you say, no one got it from me, still, in the winter time;
Pearl was in school, Dorothy was just a little thing like
Sonya (ed note: she means Eleanor when she says Dorothy
several times in the narrative) and Mom went up to the
storeroom, got some of these magazines, and Dorothy got the scarlet
fever.
Q: the same magazines you looked at?
A: I don't know that I had looked at them. I suppose I must
have, as they had not been anywhere to get it except from
that. Well, it was impossible for her to get it from those
magazines, but she did.
Q: So, were you all quarantined again?
A: Oh, yes. And she had such a sore mouth that her lips just
turned wrong side out. It was horrible.
Q: How did your mother handle that?
A: well, she couldn't leave a little tine kid alone all the time, could
she? She kept her right in the house with her.
Eleanor had a lot of hard things happen to her. Mom had a
great big box at the end of the porch; a sort of planter, between the
porch post and the house, it was fastened in there. It had
flowers planted in it, but I can't remember that anything pretty ever
grew in it. Anyhow, Eleanor went and grabbed hold of it and
swung on it and the thing came down and hit her in the head.
Split her head open, and Oh, what a goose egg she had on her head!
(Back to the journal) page 64..."There was an outside door to
the parlor and as soon as I was able, I spent time walking in the
orchard and eating my apple a day to keep the doctor away.
"At the end of our confinement we had to burn sulfur candles -- hang
clothes on line -- to kill the germs and slept that night in the barn
-- the closest I ever came to 'Camping Out'.
"The next February, Mama went to a store room away upstairs in another
end of the house to et some 'Comfort' magazines to read and baby
Eleanor got Scarlet Fever. She was so terribly ill.
Her little mouth swelled up and turned wrong side out. I
don't remember being quarantined that time.
page 65..."The next year when school started Everett and I could have
gone to Trivoli High School but Papa said NO. He called the
school a 'hell-hole' because a neighbor girl who went there had become
pregnant.
"Years later I overheard my folks saying that they should have sent us
to school. "How would she ever get a job?" They would never
allow me to take housework jobs when people needed me -- always said
they needed me at home. Years later I understood their
concern when I learned that Mama's mother was raped while working for
her sister who had a new baby, and that Aunt Blanche Erford was her
illegitimate child because of that Brother-in-law's meanness.
page 66..."Spring of 1924.....I was 15 years, oldest of our family of
four. Uncle Roy's had 5 children we played together much of
the time, whenever our folks got together to share their work.
"It was the last of May, Gardens were growing. The corn had
been cultivated -- plowed both ways. Aunt Blanche had a hen
with baby chickens in a coop in their orchard. House cleaning
was done. Heating stoves were taken down and stored
away. It wasn't time to make hay yet and Papa had traded cars
with Alfred Manuel and felt like going visiting.
"So Mama and Papa and Aunt Blanche and Uncle Roy took the two youngest
children and went on a long trip -- down to Plymouth IL to visit their
Uncle Emmet's family.
"There were very few paved roads, or graveled one, stopping places were
school yards which provided well water and out of door toilets -- a
good place to rest and eat your picnic dinner.
page 67..."But they hadn't gone far until they had a flat tire and
found out it didn't have an inner tube -- it was just stuffed with old
overalls! That's when Papa found out that trading cars was
like trading horses.
"They had a nice trip, though, and a good visit with the
McAvoy's. I was in charge of things at home to feed the kids
and keep them out of trouble. I'm sure I wouldn't have known
what to do if anything serious had happened to them. No 911
then, just a party line....
page 68..."Uncle Roy had left his Maxwell at our house so that we could
go take care of things at their house twice a day, with brother
Everett, 13, driving! The girls, Mabel and Pearl and I took
care of the chickens and the boys milked the cows and fed the hogs and
horses.
"The first day went by without anyone doing anything unusual until the
girls came running in to tell me to come to the barn and make the boys
behave.
"We always did tricks in the barn, swinging on a hayrope over an open
space from one platform to another. Or, climbing a ladder to
a window 30 feet at the top of the haymow where we could see miles and
miles around the countryside.
"Anyway, there were Harold and Ralph climbing like monkeys, hand over
hand in the very top of that hip roof barn by hanging on to the braces
that ran between the rafters. I was petrified and screamed at
them to come down...but they only answered with cuss words I'd never
heard before. So I had to go away and leave them with Everett
watching them and no one got hurt!
page 69..."The next morning we woke up to a frozen world. The
beautiful corn was ruined. The kitchen range kept us comfy in
the house but the kids were barefoot. I had to go to Aunt
Blanche's store room and hunt up winter clothes for them. We
didn't turn the hen and chicks out that day. The younguns
were glad to play in the house that day. I was so glad to see
the folks when they drove in. I was exhausted and threw
myself on the bed, maybe appreciating what my folks had been doing for
me.
page 70..."Grandparents"..."My grandmothers were both large women and
both wore their hair in a bun high on their heads. Grandma
McAlister's hair was red, as was that of two of her children, Enos and
Mary. Grandma McMeen had brown hair which turned grey quite
early. She had 8 living children, besides Grandpa had those
five by his first marriage.
"Grandma McMeen became his housekeeper while his wife was dying of
Tuberculosis. I think 3 of his first family had the same
trouble. Grandpa had brought them out west from Pennsylvania
seeking a better climate.
"Grandpa McMeen was a chubby old "Dutchman" with a white mustache and I
remember him for his quiet friendly manner, his table grace which he
mumbled into his plate, and no one knew what he said. Maybe
it was in Dutch, who knows?, but the sound of it was comforting -- He
always hunted up a piece of candy for each of us. He died of
uremic poisoning in the early 80's.
"Grandpa McAlister was a small, wiry man. Bald-headed with a
mustache. He was nervous, hard working and hard to get to
know. I never really got acquainted with him even living in
his house. He didn't talk to us, only to the
menfolk. He fell over dead in the kitchen while washing up
for breakfast when he was 69. I went to live with Grandma for
awhile as she was distraught.
page 71..."Grandma Druscilla had never had any money to spend, had
never even shopped for groceries! Her daughter Mary had
married and was living in Hanna city, too, so she came in to help her
-- whenever she could. There was much discussion as
to what to do for Grandma. The six children couldn't agree on
anything! My Dad became her conservator. Grandpa
had been the administrator of Aunt Lou's estate and it still had to be
settled and Dad had to do that, too. There were two farms to
be sold and two houses to be disposed of.
"Grandma decided she wanted to live with her children and it was
determined that she should pay her hosts $ per day -- wherever she was
staying and she would take turns going to each home. She
would go about a week to each one and come right back to Clarence and
Bertie's.. In order to settle the estate, Dad and Roy decided to go
together to buy the place where ( ) was raised just north of
Pleasant Grove and Uncle Roy's would move into it -- We would move up
on Texas Road where Dad had bought a farm.
page 72..."That worked out all right -- the other 4 got money from the
loan that Roy and Dad borrowed. Aunt Lou's house and
belongings were auctioned off.
"So Grandma McAlister spent most of her last 20 years at my
folks. When she was about 80 years old she fell
over a rug at Aunt Fern's and broke her hip. She wound up a
very unhappy patient at the Nursing home at Elmwood.
"Then, my Dad and my husband Clyde decided that I should be the one to
care for her because I had a modern home in Glasford at that
time. And, Dad says "I'll give you $3 a day!" Since Elva was
going to Bradley, I had a spare bed and she came to use it, staying
several months until she could walk again. She sat in the
wheelchair with her feet over the heat register and whenever the blower
on the furnace stopped she yelled "The furnace broke down!"
She lived several more years, dying of pneumonia in a hospital.
page 73..."World War I times again..." Let's go
back to World War I times. Everyone was greatly concerned
about doing a perfect job of farming and saving every grain of corn or
wheat, killing every weed, etc. etc. It became law that
farmers had to use hayracks with tight bottoms, like ship-lap
flooring. Before that the racks had big cracks between the
boards. We didn't have hay-balers then.
"At that time, Papa wasn't much of a carpenter so Mom's cousin Alva
"Budget" Wilson and wife Katie and son Joy came to spend a week's
vacation with us and help build the new rack. Joy was a
little older than Everett and me so he was a great playmate.
"Two days after they came they had a phone call that sent Katie into
HYSTERICS. Her brother Otto McElhaney and his bride to be
Mabel Shepherd were with a crowd on the pleasure boat "Columbia" on the
Illinois River which sank. Otto and Mabel were in a spot
where they could hang on to something when the boat broke in
two. Otto save the lives of some people -- pulling one woman
out by her hair. Papa took Budget down to the river and as
soon as they came back he took the Wilson's home. Many of
their friend were drowned. Is that why I was always afraid to
learn to swim?
"Katie and Otto's mother was Lydia Albright, a sister of Grandma McMeen.
page 74..." more about George Irvin McMeen...he was a shoe cobbler and
they say he walked to Illinois his first trip out here -- earning his
living by making shoes for people.
"He had a room at the end of his granary where he made or repaired
shoes for his family. When we heard him pounding away out
there we paid him a visit and he cracked walnuts for us. He
was always white haired and when he came in from milking the cows he
combed his hair with a fin toothed comb.
"He had a big orchard, with all kinds of fruit and lots of garden -- it
was good to visit the cellar in the fall and see the potatoes, apples,
pears and all that he carried in. And, all of the things that
Grandma McMeen canned.
"She once showed us a jar of apple butter that he husband's first
family brought from Pennsylvania when they moved to Illinois.
"Of course, we also had a cellar full of those things at home, but his
seemed bigger...
page 75..."Our Mom, lake most all the farmer's wives, spent the summer
preserving food for the winter.
"She and Aunt Blanche McAlister (Olive Blanche Bitner McAlister) tried
to learn to can corn -- and it spoiled! All that work for
nothing. I think they tried to do too much at a time, filling
a washboiler with quart jars to boil three hours.
"They had a fruit and vegetable dryer -- metal shelves with lines of
water pipes running under them -- something like a car
radiator. It sat on top the old cook stove and was big enough
to cover it. The first boiled the sweet corn on the cob and
then cut it off and put it on the dryer where it had to be stirred to
keep it from sticking until it was hard and rattled. Then
they put pans of it in the oven to finish drying -- Oh, and they hung
it up in mesh bags -- and you had to soak it all night before cooking
it. It had a flavor all its own -- wish I knew where to get
some now! Having an orchard we dried fruit, too. We
kids had to keep the coal buckets full and entertain the little kids
while our mom's were busy.
page 76..."When I was out of school and Grandparents and their family
got the flu I was taken down there to take care of them -- about all
you could do was carry water to them and empty the pots. I
cooked for the ones who weren't sick in bed yet and I wasn't a cook,
but they all survived.
"In the summer Mom would take me down to help Grandma McMeen in canning
time. They had a summer kitchen where she did all the cooking
and canning in summer and burned wood in that old range. My
job was carrying in wood and washing fruit jars.
"We had apples, pears and potatoes in our cellar most all winter
besides canned things. Mom canned tomatoes in tin pails and
sealed them with sealing wax.
"I remember seeing Aunt Vera McMeen (Cowser) gather cherries from the
tree with stems on them and she hauled out to Polito's fruit store in
Farmington to sell, to make money to go to high school.
page 77..."Grandpa McMeen lived in a log cabin when they first bought
the farm they lived on. Then they built a frame house -- a
story and a half -- but it burned when my Mother was still in grade
school -- Grandma and Grandpa had been down the road next door helping
them butcher hogs -- came home and started a fire in the cookstove and
hater and it caught fire around the chimney. Grandma ran
upstairs and saw smoke and grabbed an armload of the girls clothes from
the closet next to the chimney and burned her arm. Then, she
grabbed a chest of drawers and got it part way down the stairs and it
jammed. Some men came in and rescued her. They had
no phones but rang dinner bells for an alarm when they needed help --
so the young folks ran home from school to see the fire.
"The neighbors took them in and sewed new clothes for them, etc. and
grandpa built the big house that we remember and it is still
standing. I took a picture of it recently -- 8 rooms - big
closed in porch and summer kitchen and a big cellar.
page 78 "They still heated it with 3 heating stoves and the
kitchen range. When Uncle Elmer came home from W.W.I he
helped Grandpa install gas lights and later, I believe, they had a
'Delco' plant. I don't know when they got electricity but
that was probably in the 1940's....
The Delco Light Plant
http://www.gasenginemagazine.com/archive/0104/story.asp
By the 1920s the stationary gas engine was revolutionizing life in
rural America. Reliable, portable power for the farm and small industry
was changing the American landscape. Electricity presented yet another
set of power options, and it didn't take a genius to realize there was
money to be made supplying electric power to rural America.
Commercially viable electric-generating units were on the market by the
1900s, and by the early teens small, portable units became available.
In 1909 Charles F. Kettering, the Dayton, Ohio-based electrical
engineer and inventor responsible for the first electric starter
(installed in a Cadillac in 1911), founded the Dayton Engineering
Laboratories Co. (DELCO). Kettering's company originally supplied
electrical components for the growing automotive industry. But as
electrification spread Kettering saw the promise in providing
small-scale power for the farm, and in 1916 DELCO introduced its
"Delco-Light" line of electric-generating plants.
From the beginning, the Delco-Light line was designed to make life
easier. Power was supplied by a single-cylinder vertical engine. To
keep things simple, the engines were air-cooled, and to make things
easy, DELCO, drawing on its expertise in small motors, fitted its light
plants with electric starters. The customer only had to fill the tank,
close the switch, and the light plant did the rest. The engine started
automatically, charged the lead-acid storage batteries and, when the
batteries were charged, shut itself down. The engine was restarted only
when needed to bring the batteries back up to charge.
The first Delco-Light plant was a 750-watt, 32-volt unit (enough to
light 37 20-watt bulbs) and was quickly followed by a broad line of
light plants with output up to 1,250 watts. But even 1,250 watts wasn't
enough to satisfy the growing hunger for electricity, so in 1918
Delco-Light introduced a 3,000-watt light plant powered by a
single-cylinder, 5 HP engine. Sales continued to build, and by 1925
more than 60,000 Delco-Light plants had been sold.
"In the dining room was a desk and a big table and sideboard and couch
where Grandpa took a nap after dinner. And the
girls had a pump organ where they learned to play. I think
Aunt Blanche got it when they bought a piano for the younger
girls. Of course it went into the parlor with the big heavy
chairs and rockers and a carpet. And on the wall was a huge
framed embroidered "Lord's Prayer"...
"Each bedroom had a complete suite of furniture and a clothes closet --
which was unusual in those days.
"In the dining room was the wall telephone, party line -- and if you
ran a continuous ring you could get all the neighbors on there at the
same time. That house would be over a hundred years old now
in the 1990's
page 79..."In the 1920's the women in Pleasant Grove neighborhood
formed the Apron and Overall Club to have some social activities
besides the one at school. They knew they would never get
their men to dress up to go anywhere, thus the 'Overalls' part.
"I think everyone enjoyed the parties we had, going from one home to
another each month. The hostess furnished a lunch -- usually
sandwiches or soup -- something simple and we had to plan new games to
play. It was amazing to us kids to see our folks playing
games or speaking pieces... They got started playing cards.
Dad learned to play 500 and each evening in the winter, Mom and Dad and
Everett and I played, even little Pearl learned to play before she was
old enough for school.
"page 80..."When my folks moved from the Pleasant Grove place to the
farm they bought on Texas Road, Uncle Roy's bunch moved in as we moved
out.
"That night, as we prepared to get a good night's sleep with their
packing boxes all over the place getting mixed up with ours, here came
the Apron and Overall Club to give us a farewell and Uncle Roy's a
welcome and to have a dance on our bare floors.
"Dad did not approve of dancing, but, what could he do about
it? It was Uncle Roy's house now, and we kids got to learn to
square dance in our own kitchen.
"Texas Road was not paved as it is now. It was MUD.
The neighbors had been dragging the road to try to dry it out and then
it halfway froze up and Dad, with lots of help, drove our cattle up
over it and tracked it all up, so that the next day, when it was
frozen, we went in wagons and hayracks and buggies -- it was rough
enough to shake your teeth out. That was a
treacherous road -- One day it would be dry, but just a little rain and
it would be impassable.
page 81..."Our house on Texas Road was 8 rooms, not modern in any
way. My bedroom had a small closet in it! There was
a cistern pump in the kitchen with no drain to the sink.
Drinking water was just outside the back door -- down a flight of
steps. The stairs to the cellar was on the back porch -- and
after a tornado went nearby, Dad cut a hold in his bedroom floor and
put a ladder up to it.
"Our radio antenna was stretched out near the phone line and we could
hear people talking on the party line on the radio! FUN!
"That's where I met Clyde Schoaff, a neighbor boy who had a new "STAR"
coupe. He came asking me to go to a young folks party at the
nearby church -- and by the time that night came, it had rained and he
had to come with horse and buggy -- He was humiliated! And, I
was thrilled to have a BEAU!
page 82..."We went to Peoria to the movies about every Saturday night
and sometime Everett and Vera went along.
"About a year later, I was pregnant. He finally decided to
marry me.
"Everett took Mom and Dad and me in a wagon down to the hard road to
take the bus to Peoria. We went shopping for a suit for my
wedding dress and a new coat.
"Clyde and his Dad went and got the license and met us at a Justice of
the Peace office where we were wed...and he took off on the run...
"I saw him again in December when Elva was 3 months old. He
wanted to start living with us, so he and my Dad went to Peoria and
found an apartment where with old furniture my folks gave me, we
started out our married life. It was a two room and bath
place and I spent my time washing on a washboard and drying clothes in
the attic, cooking meals and spoiling the baby.
"Every weekend we drove out to visit one family or the other.
Clyde was working in a foundry for $16 a week, but things were
different then, our groceries cost less than $5 a week.
page 83..."Then Clyde found a house in his folks neighborhood would be
for rent and we moved to an old brick house north of Eden -- across the
road from a schoolhouse. I could board the teacher.
She paid me $1 a day and I cooked 3 hot meals a day for her.
We could keep a cow or two and had a garden and some chickens, and a
TELEPHONE so I could talk to my folks once in awhile.
"Our recreation was mostly the programs the kids put on at the school.
"This house was built just after the civil war with bricks that were
hauled by oxcart from down at Frederick, IL...It was 6 rooms and a
cellar with an indoor stairway to it! It was cool in the
summer and warm in the winter. We bought a linoleum floor
covering for the kitchen and a coal burning cook stove from Bergner's
for about $9.00 and a couch for the living room from a second hand
store for $2. A 400 pound neighbor lady came to visit and the
couch was the only place big enough for her to sit down -- needless to
say, the spot she sat on never came up again!
page 84..."About 2 years later, Clyde found a place he wanted to move
to on Glen Ave. in Peoria. He was now working at Caterpillar
and wanted to be nearer his work.
"We had 6 acres with fruit trees and grapevines and a barn in which we
kept cows, chickens and a NEW Model A Ford.... Our drinking
water wasn't good so we carried it from the neighbors. There
was no electricity or plumbing -- 5 room and a cellar.
"While there Elva and I had mumps and measles together, and she had a
little playmate next door.
"I made cottage cheese for the neighbors, entertained Clyde's cousins
who lived in Peoria and many of his fellow workers came to visit us "in
the country". That part of Peoria is all built up now and the
house we lived in is gone.
page 85..."Then we started farming -- renting from Mr. DeVault out west
of Edwards Station. As usual, the house we moved into was a
dirty mess; but, the landlord would buy wallpaper if I'd put it on ,
and I did.
"That was a four room house with a cellar. With old borrowed
machinery from our folks we started in. The banks went broke
about that time but we had spent our meager savings for a team of mares
and seed oats. Our mares had colts -- one of which fell dead
of a heart attack. The oats were harvested and I had
threshing crew to feed. Two meals because the
neighbor didn't want to start his job that late in the day.
Our crops all turned out well and we raised cattle and hogs.
I remember selling the big sows for $3 per hundred?
"We even rented extra ground one year down in the Kickapoo Creek
bottoms where it had flooded and no one else wanted to clear away the
logs and rocks that washed in.
page 86..."Elva grew up to start to school at Cottonwood with a teacher
she said was the most beautiful lady in the world. Marvin was
born there just after Elva had the chickenpox -- and when he was 4 days
old, I got them too and when I got the fever I was sure I would die.
"We were only about 5 miles across country to Clyde's folks, and when
Mrs. Schoaff (Minnie Hofstatter Schoaff) was quite ill with heart
trouble I went over there every other day to do their work, so that
Velda could go to high school. When her mother died at age
50, Velda was not allowed to go back and finish the junior grade.
"Her brother, Verne, got a job at the powder mill which was a couple
miles north of us. One day (11/5/1935) he was a little bit
late getting there and an explosion killed the man he was to replace,
Lewis Kimzey, a second cousin of mine. Verne sat on our well
curb and cried, realizing it might have been his last day.
"While Clyde continued to work at Caterpillar I did the farm work until
Marvin's birth when we had to hire help -- our last year there, Torris
Roberson helped us.
page 87..."In about 1936, my Dad and Clyde went down to Glasford and
found a small farm for sale -- the owners had lost it to the
Bank. We bought it and again moved in to a very dirty rundown
place. Clyde hired my Dad to build fences, paint and repair
buildings and Clyde bought a small tractor. I still drove 4
horses on most machinery and we had 13 milking cows! A month
after we moved in came a deep snow and Clyde had to stay in
Peoria...when I wasn't taking care of livestock I papered and painted
the new home.
"We started going to the Baptist church in Glasford because John
Schlenker, who worked at Caterpillar, was preaching there. I
think he was at that church for over 39 years and it grew to around 200
attendance. Elva and Charles were married there.
The four of us, Clyde and I and Elva and Marvin were all baptized
Baptists.
"Paul was born in 1942. Again we had to hire help, or rent
out the land. We had bought the adjoining place so we had
enough farmland to keep one person busy. So, Grandpa Gilbert
came to live with us and take care of the White Rock
chickens. We were selling eggs to the Hatchery in Peoria.
"So, after Paul's 11 3/4 pound delivery I was in the hospital for
repairs and we eventually sold the farm and moved to
Glasford. Just at that time, Elva went to Bradley U.
page 88..."Again I 'boarded' the schoolteacher, a Barb Mackie who
taught at the high school.
"Back to when we were living on the farm...Grandma McMeen came to visit
us about the first of July. Grandpa had died and she was
having a lady in our part of the county make her a black satin
dress. Grandma had always been the family seamstress, but
this had to be something special! She said "We're going to
have a picnic here for the 4th of July" and she got on the phone,
inviting our families to bring potluck and I could furnish the fried
chicken...It was her birthday on July 6 and also that of Alice
Roberson. I think there were about 30 people who showed up!
"We still have our family birthday dinners about every month, but we go
to Stewart's Cafe in Trivoli and someone else raises the chickens.
(1997 note added...I'm now 12 years older than Grandma was when she
died and I always thought she was OLD)
page 89..."The boys were downright unhappy about moving to
town. We finally brought their dog and Shetland pony to town
but that only caused more trouble with lots of neighbor kids wanting
rides and the boys (read Marvin, as Paul wasn't much help at that
age...pes) got tired of taking care of them, especially the
pony. We sold it, I think to Charlie Sill (I didn't know him
then). We took the dog back to the farm.
"Clyde was very unhappy there in town. His eyes turned to
other women and he had the idea that all the neighbors were watching
him. That was when he brought Grandma McAlister to me to care
for until she could walk again. Then Clyde found a little
house over by Mapleton and said we were moving over there. He
also wanted me to go to Barber College. I did and had a way
to make a few more dollars.
"Paul started to school at maple Ridge. His teacher, Mrs.
Jeffords, drove by our place and he rode to school with her and stayed
after school with a neighbor, Mrs. Carlyle until Marvin came home from
High School and took him home.
page 90..."We went to La Marsh Baptist Church and became acquainted
with many nice people there.
"For many years Clyde had wanted a divorce, but I didn't believe in it;
but, after he told me his lady friend was pregnant I finally relented,
and we divorced in July 1949.
"Clyde had bought me a barber shop in Glasford and I continued to work
there until after the divorce. I couldn't keep a master
barber with me. One told me that people were
"talking". So I traded the little house near Mapleton for the
Busy Bee Cafe and changed my profession -- I had an apartment there in
the building where the boys and I lived until Marvin and Mary Knowles
were married -- then it was just Paul and me. The Doctor
looked down his throat and said "All I see is ice cream cones"
page 91..."The Busy Bee Cafe had been run by the Duhs family.
She in the kitchen, he behind the counter when not at his other job,
and a son who was a High School Senior to help, too.
"My teenager, Marvin, would rather work on someone's old car than be
seen helping me. He quit school in his junior year and got a
job with Art Knowles in Canton, who became his father-in-law.
Paul enjoyed the comic books form the magazine shelves and the good
food and the attention he got from the girls who worked for
me. There was Betty the waitress, Mary the cook,
and Mabel the evening waitress. Mabel also took our laundry
to do at her house. I worked early and late to keep things
going. Mary stayed on Wednesday afternoons so I could get my
hair done, and that day's take was always very short. Finally
by planting a certain amount in the register I found out where the
money was going and told Mary I couldn't afford to keep her.
"Sister Pearl came to my rescue! She and little Lorena came
each day as her husband Torris went to work at Caterpillar.
She was a great cook, Lorena had a playmate next door and all went much
better.
"The high school kids descended on us each noon hour and whenever they
won a ballgame they expected and got a free lunch, which meant hiring
extra help every time there was a home game. The mayor and
the Coach always came in and rehashed the game, too.
page 92..."I don't know just how long I struggled along with all that,
but when the Ogles came along wanting to buy me out and keep me on as
help -- living in the apartment -- I took it.
"Easter Day, I planned to go back to church. Clyde had been
picking up Paul every weekend. Here came Charlie Sill to eat
breakfast. His wife had died of cancer in 1950 but he
continued to come up to the Lamarsh Baptist Church whenever he
could. I remarked that it was so nice that he could go back
to the old church, etc. and he invited me to go along. I
went, and when we came back, I treated him to a big steak
dinner. After that we dated every Wednesday night -- going to
prayer meeting.
"On August 7th, we were married at the church parsonage with the other
two elders as his attendants and their wives as mine. They
played the old pump organ and sang "Under His Wing" and had a big
supper at the preacher's table.
"We drove down to Hull IL., to Charlie's sister Charlet's and stayed
that night, then took her with us to visit the other sister Lily in
Arkansas. But we left her there. I had moved my
furniture into Charlie's house the day before and Bette and Roy had
moved up to Ipava. She still came back to do her laundry and
taught me how it should be done for Charlie! We got along
fine and also with Bruce and Phyllis and all the grandchildren.
page 93..."My folks came down with a new set of dishes.
Charlie welcomed my family as I did his and he got along well with
Paul. Besides their own two kids, he and May had taken care
of two foster boys until their mother married again and the moved to
Texas.
"When we were married, Charlie was working for his brother, Ralph, who
sold Allis Chalmers machinery. After Ralph quit that
business, Charlie and a foxhunting buddy opened a strip-mine and
delivered coal.
"On our small acreage we raised corn to feed our cattle and horses (and
pigs and chickens, etc.) He finally sold them and got
goats. The goat milk made good ice cream. When the
neighbors found out that I had been a barber they started coming to the
house -- often in the evening -- when I was so tired and that was the
age of flat-tops. Some thought I was a beautician and
expected I would do perms at their homes. That kept me very
busy until a neighbor lady had a car wreck just before school
started. She was the Bader School cook and the directors came
to me begging me to take her place. I agreed to do it to help
her until she was able, but she died so I worked there two years until
they closed the school and took the kids to Astoria.
page 94..."I worked awhile in a drugstore -- then Eleanor went into the
Amway business and sonsored us. That was a happy
time. We went almost every week to get products and got to
visit my Mom at the same time. I sold to over 200 customers
and we sponsored a lot of them. Charlie had always been a
salesperson, selling Mason Shoes and made to measure Men's suits, etc.,
so he enjoyed it, too.
"Meanwhile, I also stayed nights at Homer and Edith Beam's for 5
years. Bother over 90 and invalid, they had to have 24 hour
care. A daughter came on Friday night and stayed through to
Monday morning -- so I had weekends to catch up at home and to go to
Amway meetings.
"Elmer and Eleanor took us to a big Rally in Maryland near Washington
D.C. and we got to visit Paul and Eileen and boys out there.
Another trip Charlie and I took was with his brother, Jasper and his
wife, Marie, to visit family in Colorado. We also made
several trips to Arkansas and to visit Charlie's brother Dan and his
wife, Dolly in southwest Missouri. You never knew just when
some of his family might drive in. When Charlet came, she
always brought a perm with her and always baked a hickory nut cake.
page 95..."In 1977, Charlie had surgery to remove a cancer from his
neck. the size of an egg. They also took his
tonsils. Then he had to go to Springfield for 3 or 4 weeks
for radiation treatment. Bette insisted on taking us every
day. When it was time for his annual checkup he kept putting
it off. Then one morning he came in and said "you can call
for an appointment with Dr. Gibbs". It was a hot humid day
and he went out to mow the grass at the end of the garden.
When I heard the mower idling I went to check on him and
found him lying there, dead.
"Marvin and Joanne and kids came at once and stayed a couple
weeks. They were ready to go home when my mother
died. Later, Marvin brought me a mobile home which we moved
over to Morris Cripe's place and I had a sale.
"Some years later I moved to the apartment in Astoria where I was able
to help at the nutrition center and with the Red Cross Van which took
people to Macomb to Doctors appointments , etc.
"We have lived her at 1314 North Wood Road for over 9 years now and
enjoy your visits ever year.
All my love,
Grandma